Email Submission: Hello, I have a question that I have waited to ask. I have one labia that is almost no existent then the other is longer and discolored. Is this normal? Will the guy I am sexual activity with care? Finally I’m considering a labiaplasty, is it worth it? Thank you! Much love.
Hey don’t worry, you have a lovely, beautiful and extremely sexy vulva. Asymmetry is the norm, with most people having one inner labium different to the other. You should see my labia which aren’t that much different to yours actually. Some people have more asymmetry, some less. Big deal, we all just take our place on the spectrum of normal vulva diversity. You’re fine.
You might also like to read this post of mine which pretty much lays out my thoughts on having two very different labia.
Oh and its not discoloration. Labia come in all shades of pink, brown, purple, blue, grey and black. A large percentage of Caucasian (white skinned) people with vulvas have darker tips on their labia minora. About 2/3 of white people have labia that are predominantly pinks, and 30% have one of those other colours. And having multiple colours between the lips and on the one lip, is totally normal too. I think it adds a bit of interest and is really pretty! You’re totally fine. There’s nothing to worry about.
Will a guy care? Not in any negative sense, if he’s a decent and intelligent human being. He’ll care because it’s you, and you’re hot, and he’s going to be super excited to be anywhere near your normal, beautiful, desirable lips. He’ll care because he’s into you, and cares about you, and being allowed the honour of having sex with you is a true privilege.
If he doesn’t feel that way, and if he does care what your labia look like and he wants to hold you to some ridiculous, unrealistic and unattainable beauty standard of his choosing then he’s a stupid arsehole and his idiotic thoughts are his problem, not yours. The only problem is his attitude, not your body. Dump him ASAP. He’s not worth your time or any emotional involvement.
Please put the idea of labiaplasty out of your mind. It’s a risky and unproven operation that can’t ever fix a problem that you don’t even have. Any dislike you have for your labia is based on misinformation and a distorted view of what is normal and beautiful. It’s all bullshit that certain parts of society tell you, either out of ignorance or because they want to make money out of you. Well let me tell you I’m here to act as the voice of reason, and you are normal. If you want to do some reading there are lots of articles and papers in my Labia Resources page which will put your straight about labiaplasty.
You’re beautiful, sexy and normal and I hope that you can learn to love your labia for the amazing parts of your body that they are.
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